Sunday, July 24, 2011

Wendy's 5K and Croc Walk


The day of the 5k run and croc walk for Wendy was amazing. I really can't believe what our friends were able to pull together in such a short time. I couldn't have asked for a more special day to meet with friends and remember Wendy, and if that was all that happened it would have been worth it, but then to add everyone's generous offerings on our family's behalf was a continuing reminder of how incredible people can be. Thank you everyone that made this day possible, I really don't know what to say and how to convey my gratitude for everything.

I had heard some of the plans here and there, but I hadn't imagined just how much they had planned out and made happen. I showed up at the park to run and be with family and friends. It was difficult to keep my control as I lined up to start and looked out at over 600 runners that came out to show support of who Wendy is. The first mile was difficult.

After the run the ladies had planned a "croc walk" where Croc's had kindly donated orange crocs for all who signed up (I think they even ran out of them). It was a sight to see as a long line of orange feet and balloons and shirts snaked around the park as we walked and then gathered to release our balloons. Before we released them, Julie, Melissa, and Natalie shared a few words about Wendy, I will never forget these moments. Wendy's parents had returned from their mission just days before and were able to be there for all of this and I couldn't help being very grateful that they could experience that too. What an incredible day, what an amazing group of friends. That last balloon is Evan's, he didn't want to let go of it.

It helped me to think as these girls put their babies to bed and met up to plan until early hours of the morning that Wendy would have loved being there in the planning. She really loved the "girls nights" they would have and it makes me smile thinking of them thinking of her during those times and I can only hope she was permitted to sit in on some of them in whatever capacity spirits can do that sort of thing.
After the croc walk and balloon release, the carnival started. There was cotton candy, popcorn, live bands, a silent auction, bounce houses, pony rides, catered lunch, snow cones, train rides, fire trucks and police dept, and probably many things I am forgetting. I watched the ponies for a bit and liked remembering the last night I had with her and our family, they were the same ponies.
There are many things that went on behind the scenes that I am sure I have no idea, and many companies and people that gave so much of their time and help and support that I will never be able to adequately thank them. I will try. It is tough to not want to live every day better because I have seen so much good from others. Thank you. I know it isn't enough, but thank you.

9 comments:

Allison said...

A friend shared your blog and I have been following it since the passing of your wife. I love how positive you are, and continue to be.

I started a blog last year when I lost my husband, but I feel it has turned into a place where I voice my frustrations, and feelings of inadequacy... Thanks for sharing in such a positive way.

I am so sorry for your loss, and to that I can relate losing my husband as well. I wish for you the best, and for your kids as well.

Jordan and Luci said...

That was awesome! Seriously, it makes me happy that there are such good people out there. You are one of them. I'm glad we got to be there for most of it anyways.

Zoey said...

A picture tells 1000 words. Thank you for sharing. It is wonderful that you had a big turn out. The orange crocs made me smile too!

Anonymous said...

Sweet tribute . . .


Denny, are you going to be able to begin medical school as planned?

Julie said...

I don't know you but my husband Chris Burton went to school with you. I think about your sweet family daily and pray for you always! Denny you are such a sweet father and husband I'm sure your sweet Wendy is so proud of you. Just know that there are lots of people who love you (including people who have never physically met you). I hope today is filled with peace and love

Becky said...

Denny,
I don't know you. I grew up with Wendy. I'm not sure if she would have remembered me, but I remember her. She was an amazing example of goodness and genuine Christlike love. She made a huge impact on me.

I attended the funeral and have thought and cried for your family often since I heard of Wendy's passing. I wanted to thank you for sharing your journey on your blog. My mom passed away a little over a year ago and reading what you are going through has helped me understand what my dad is going through. Thank you.

I wish your family all the best. You have a beautiful family and after losing my own mom truly believe that they are involved in our lives more than we can comprehend. After all, isn't being a family the whole point? Thank you again.

Honey said...

It was such an incredible event - I'm grateful I was able to participate. The things I read on your blog and what was said at the race, I know your wife was an incredible person, just like you and your sweet family.

Your faith is so inspiring. Thank you for being so open and sharing. I hope the very best for you and your family.

Honey Hunt (Micki Kyle's sister)
Centennial, CO

julie said...

A friend shared your blog. I just want to say you are doing a great job! You are truly an inspiration. May you continue to find peace and comfort. Such an honor to your wife's memory! Just AWESOME!

Natalie said...

We were there at the croc walk. We don't know you or your sweet family, but a friend of a friend knows you and that's how we found out. How touching it was to participate in that with my 6 year old son and 4 year old daughter. I continue to pray that the Lord will bless and comfort you. If I can figure out how to send some pictures from that day, I will do so.

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